It is the quiet time after dinner on Thanksgiving Day…it has been dark out for at least 3 hours, maybe 4, a gloomy, grey day. John is doing dishes and singing along with the Yorkminster Cathedral Choir, our favorite band on the CD, “Grieve not the Holy Spirit”, by T. Tertius Noble, a beautiful piece with a tenor solo…I love hearing him sing it…I give quiet thanks for his voice and for him.
It was a quiet day all around for us. Having been in N.J. three weekends out of the last four, we chose to stay home this time…John and Vicki and kids went to Cousin Mark’s and so were with family. We wouldn’t have gone today anyway, as we spend all holidays having dinner with John’s mother at Cedar Hill, the only continuing care community (nursing home/assisted living place) I’ve ever been in that I’ve come away not depressed about. It is a marvelous place, very small, with independent living apartments, assisted living, nursing care unit, and alzheimer unit, owned by two nurses, mother and daughter, who try very hard to include families. Each holiday they have dinners to which families are invited. They can hold only a limited number of people, since there are no big reception rooms/dining rooms/etc., so tables are set up in the living room, the dining room, the porch…and two people for each resident are welcome…It reminds me of some of the dinners I’ve had in my homes over the years, where we’ve had to set up tables in all the rooms to seat everyone. It’s a family sort of place. No matter what time of the day I go there, I’ve never smelled urine or worse, never seen a grouchy attendant, never felt unwelcome. Mom seems to love it there…I’ve never seen her happier as long as I’ve known her. I’d rather eat my food, but they try…In the morning, before we went, I fed the animals, of course, and then read some of the current book I’m working my way through…and John did more work on his garden, putting it to bed for the winter, and then did something down at the road, not sure what. When we got back, he took a nap. Dinner was a very simple yoghurt for me, having stuffed myself full of turkey at lunchtime. He had a sandwich made with the whole wheat bread I made on my new Zojirushi (don’t you just LOVE that word!?) Bread Machine. It took three tries, but I’ve got it. The whole wheat bread is great. The white bread is great. Now, I have to branch out some…
In a little while, we will sit down, and while I knit mittens to later felt in the washer, we’ll watch a couple of episodes of “Larkrising to Candleford.”
And all the while, today, I have been thinking quietly about all the things I’m thankful for, without getting maudlin or overly sentimental. Silly things, like Stonyfield Yoghurt. Serious things like a call from my sister. Like the sheep. Like Lizzie, even with her willfulness… More silly things like Netflix, which enables us to watch DVD’s of worth. More serious things: the ability to knit and spin and quilt and sew…My kids and grandkids…so many people who’ve been a blessing to me…this lovely farm, this beautiful state of Vermont and the courage we had to pack up and come here…books to read, our health, the list goes on and on and on and on…
This past week or two, I’ve had another letter from a former student, and a first letter from another former student. (These two people were in a sixth grade class I taught in 1966-67 school year! Vee Lynn found me on the internet, and told Greg about me…) AND, we had a surprise package…a box of citrus fruit from another former student, whom I taught in fifth grade in 1967-68 school year who found me a few years ago. And an electronic Thanksgiving card from yet another of those fifth graders, who has been in touch with me and I with her since then. Her family were our babysitters (There were 9 of them and at least five of them, in turn, coped with our kids while we went out and they were young.) It is very gratifying to be in communication with these wonderful folks, kind of completing a circle in a way…And Tuesday, I will have lunch with a former seminarian, another student from much later, the early 90’s…who has become a good friend.
Life is good. Thanks be to God.










